socket-util: Properly set socket permissions in make_unix_socket().

Under Linux, at least, bind and fchmod interact for Unix sockets in a way
that surprised me.  Calling fchmod() on a Unix socket successfully sets the
permissions for the socket's own inode.  But that has no effect on any
inode that has already been created in the file system by bind(), because
that inode is not the same as the one for the Unix socket itself.

However, if you bind() *after* calling fchmod(), then the bind() takes the
permissions for the new inode from the Unix socket inode, which has the
desired effect.

This also adds a more portable fallback for non-Linux systems.

Reported-by: YAMAMOTO Takashi <yamamoto@valinux.co.jp>